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We don't always have to be happy. You don't always have to say, "I'm doing well, how about yourself." Emotions on both sides of the spectrum exist for a reason. I have found that I feel guilty when I'm honestly not happy. I feel that as a Christian even the fact that I'm saved, blessed with the hope of eternal paradise, should override any temporary sadness. But life is hard in so many different ways.

After reading Job and talking about it with my Torrey group, we realized that yes, Job did praise God despite his horrible circumstances. But then he goes on chapter after chapter wailing and directly asking God why this had to happen. Even David throughout the Psalms, the man after God's own heart, has times where he cries out in misery to God. But, through both examples, they understand that continual sadness is not right or healthy. God answers Job and reminds him that an Almighty God who we cannot even comprehend is in control. David always turns his mourning into praise, ending with reminders of God's promises and faithfulness.

Horrible things happen. Honest sadness, leaving you feeling hollow and pitiful, is not wrong. But at a point, the truth must inform your emotions. Healing comes. The hope of God's faithful promises and new blessings and opportunities must push us forward.